Why do some males think just because they slosh out a wad of sperm, that particular action makes them a Father or a Dad?

If you’ve read any of my previous posts you know a bit of the medical, drug and alcohol issues my sister went through last year. She is doing better if you ask certain people at certain times, while at others, I hear she’s not doing so well and needs Supplemental Social Security for her disability (Note: she went through testing last month by SS doctors and they deemed her able to work.)

I also have been told she “needs a caregiver”, to help her out. Personally, I feel it’s a racket to make a cash cow out of my sister and to keep her and her daughter obligated and Dependant on the individuals she is currently living with. I do not trust them. The female of the two, tells me one thing, while telling others another and she talk shit on me ALL THE DAMN TIME.

For example, How I don’t really care for my sister, that I just wanted to keep her a prisoner in a home, How I “Finally” got information to her, the female (on behalf of my sister and her sons) so my sister could go after the alleged Sperm Donor, for years of back child support.
So you may get an inkling as to why I do not trust those people. They cry a poor mouth on one hand, but insist they’ve room for my sister and her daughter. Yet to some they complain and relay instances where my sister is supposedly not doing a good job of caring for her daughter. If they ever try and remove my sister’s daughter from her citing my sister’s inability to care for her, they’ll have a huge fight on their hands, as THEY ARE NOT FAMILY OR BLOOD, and they have no legal say or rights to shit!!

The Bad Penny/The alleged Sperm Donor last saw his youngest son (by my sister) when he was around 8 months old. That was back in 1995. He now all the sudden wants to be “Daddy” and see “His boys” and visit with them or have them go visit him. Not a good idea at all. The older of the two boys, seems to want to see him, but in my opinion what he wants is to finally have a father in his life.

This Male is no Father. much less a man nor a good example for anyone to pattern themselves after. He’s abused women (my sister being one of them), he’s stolen property from others, he’s damaged auto’s as a revenge tactic (acid on windshields and windows), had roosters for cock fighting, done hard narcotics, (coke and meth just to name a couple.) He also drinks to excess.

He’s a mean, distasteful piece of crap of a male. I’ve no doubt my nephews aren’t the only children he’s not paying for. He’d like folks to think he’s a mans man and gruff in the Tim -the -Tool-Man sort of way but he is not. He’s not been there, nor paid for his children so why should he reap the rewards of knowing them now? Let’s see you pony up some of your settlement money and PAY your back child support to start with, ya dead beat. Let’s see you make a bona fide effort to reconnect with your kids, like sending them birthday money when you say you’re going to, but don’t. All you’ve given those kids are hang-ups, and an abusive past they’re slowly recovering from.

For those who think I’m talking out my ass, I still have the message he left on our answering machine with threats against the family on it. Some stand up “Man”, isn’t he?

So if you’re thinking or if you’ve knocked some girl up, either be a real dad and own up to your responsibilities or stay the fuck out of their lives all together.

If you’re one of those men who has been a Real Father & Dad and been responsible, good on ya.